Everyone is always better accepted when they are nice, polite, and not being loud, aggressive, or angry. Every single group; because loud, aggressive, angry people usually annoy or disrupt social cohesion. This isn’t anything new, you’re not the only one expected to be nice, you aren’t the only one people don’t like when you’re abrasive.

One problem feminists have is thinking they are they only one. This stems from their tendency to look inward, not in a reflective way, but more in a selfish way. You’re saying nothing new, but pretending it’s a revelation.