Here is the difference between us, and I’ll use an analogy to make it simple.
An Palestinian terrorist is speeding in a residential zone. A jewish child is playing on the side walk. The terrorist driver swerved off the road and kills the child.
An Israeli driver is speeding in a residential zone. A Palestinian child is playing on the side walk. A Palestinian terrorist picks up the child and tosses him in front of the car.
I’m both cases, the child was killed by the car, in both cases there is some reckless driving because of speeding. And for you, this makes these two drivers equally bad, equally evil, and equally murderers.
For everyone else, the terrorist who ran his car off the road is to blame, and the terrorist who placed the child in harm’s way is to blame.
The deaths of the children are equally tragic, but the drivers are not equal in blame, even though they were both speeding.
You can’t see why that’s the case, you see a dead child and a driver and think “they both bad” without consideration for the cause or circumstance of death. That is why you continue to defend terrorists.