Then go back and read the quote I responded to. The author basically says “I’m not sexist or a man-hater because I’m married to man” which I point out is the same or nearly the same as “I’m not racist because I have a black friend”.

Meaning “I’m married to a man” is no shield or proof against the author’s clear bigotry. If your still confused, reread the thread. I know this article is not about racism. I’m making a comparison. I hope this clarifies it for you.