You’re right. But look at the facts. The Palestinians picked up the weapons first. Palestinian Arab citizens have equal rights in Israel. However, an Israeli in Gaza would be murdered. So which government is really the obstruction for peace?
If Israel destroyed all its weapons, everyone of them would be killed the same day and you would have your genocide.
If the Palestinians destroyed all their weapons, there would be peace.
Israel can and will live next to a Palestinian state, the Palestinians will not live next to an Israeli state. This is well known.